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Crazytxtink · 51-55, F
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@Crazytxtink No, it's not about telling people should change at the present moment when they are at a low level. It is a support to give them a motivation to rebuild themselves within time.
Support is the decision, not conscription. I give you support, but it depends on you if you want to take that as a self-motivation or not. If someone says you "should" be feeling something that opposite with your feeling, then that is mean they don't understand you. Before you step onto the next level, you have to let yourself fall. Before someone told you that you should feel something, they have to understand your feeling first. And later they will give you the support instead of telling you should do something. The rest is up to you.
Support is the decision, not conscription. I give you support, but it depends on you if you want to take that as a self-motivation or not. If someone says you "should" be feeling something that opposite with your feeling, then that is mean they don't understand you. Before you step onto the next level, you have to let yourself fall. Before someone told you that you should feel something, they have to understand your feeling first. And later they will give you the support instead of telling you should do something. The rest is up to you.