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Do you feel accepted here?

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Pluggedin · 41-45, M

Depends on the persons point of view

marsbar · F

Yes

SW-User

The best part is... I don’t care if I’m accepted.

I’ve gotten over that.

marsbar · F

@SW-User But we like you. 😇

SW-User

@marsbar I like you too.

But this site has taught me to stop trying and just be me.

I think I’m better because of it.

marsbar · F

@SW-User Yes. It’s always better to be yourself. :)

SW-User

I do. So many wonderful people here! You included!

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SW-User

@Rokasu ofc my friend!🤗🦁[image deleted]

Rokasu · 36-40, M

@SW-User And then she ate him right?

SW-User

@Rokasu no. She didn't.

gummybears · F

I don’t know.. they like my doodles..

Mamapolo2016 · F

Some of the time - until I voice an unpopular opinion, or disagree with someone. That's when the daggers come out.

If this place was actual instead of virtual, it would be dangerous to think differently, which is sad.

Rokasu · 36-40, M

@Mamapolo2016 I haven’t seen too many fangs lately. I also haven’t given a crap either so there’s that.

Mamapolo2016 · F

I don't either, except I'm much more into discussion than conflict, so I bow out when I realize it's reaching critical mass. @Rokasu

SW-User

Do we have to?

Karmalives · 51-55, M

@SW-User NO

Rokasu · 36-40, M

@SW-User Rofl no.

CrazyMusicLover · 31-35

I feel like I don't matter most of the time. People care less if you hide your gender and age and don't post selfies much.

This website reminds me of our primary school ethics classes sometimes. Our teacher came up with a game where every student was supposed to anonymously write one positive and one negative things about every classmate on a piece of paper. Guess what I had in both columns most of the time. 😂
"I don't know her, I don't judge"
"She's quiet"
"I don't know her"
"She seems nice"
"She's okay"
"She's cool and likes great music" <- my friend
"I don't know her"
...

I'm bland like that. So what now... 🤷 You reap what you sow.

Rokasu · 36-40, M

@CrazyMusicLover I get what you’re saying. Just to be “known” can take a lot of work here. The question is: is it worth it?

CrazyMusicLover · 31-35

@Rokasu I guess it depends on how much time you are able and willing to invest into friendships. Both online and in real life. I am aware that I don't have a bigger capacity than just a few people at time so trying to get known with many people wouldn't be fair from me if I couldn't be able to give them as much attention as they wish to get from a friend.