What should I do?

Okay so I recently ended a two year long relationship. This guy and I were truly in love until the end like in most relationships but I got a new job and I had to start working a lot more because I have a lot more bills than a normal 16 year old. I met this guy at work, he’s a really sweet guy, we hang out a lot and he knows that I have feelings for him but we have an age difference. He’s 20 and I’m 16, I feel like I’m a bad person for being into someone so soon after just getting out of a relationship but I don’t know what to do about the guy I have feelings for now. Someone please try and help me.

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butterfly1013 · 26-30, F

I wouldn't rush it. Not only did you just get out of a relationship recently, you are soo young. Being with a 20 year old is the last thing you should be thinking about if you want me to be honest with you. Focus on those bills and being a teenager. Learn to be happy alone. Love will come later. up to you, but just ,y opinion.

atormanen · 22-25, F

@butterfly1013 you’re right I just I don’t know how to feel anymore. I feel like I am losing control but I’m not at the same time and everything just feels empty.

ItsGonnaBeOk · 26-30, M

Stay friends for a while give your self time to heal.
If he wanted to ask you out just tell him the truth you are not rejecting him but you need some time by your self and focus on your current issues like bills

atormanen · 22-25, F

@ItsGonnaBeOk thank you, he’s actually the one who helped me get out of a controlling relationship and I really want to continue being friends with him.

Johnjo · 70-79, M

Go for it your young beautiful why not enjoy yourself that lots of years experience talking. If you ever need to talk to someone I'm good listnerx

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