Love or slef love ?

Smart lady. You got that right! You’re far better off by yourself. I don’t see love anymore in this generation. I see nothing but lust. Some don’t know the difference. Get an education. That comes first and is the most important. That way, whatever life throws at you, you’ll always be able to depend on yourself, your own money, and pull yourself out of a bad situation, if necessary. Never be dependent on anyone but yourself. Love yourself enough to do that. You come first. Never allow anyone to define your value. Take the best of care of yourself. No one else will.