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I've only had my exes poached 🤨

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@SW-User All of them? 👀

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@SW-User Unfortunately, only 1 was genuinely a good, faithful person, by the end. All others accidentally slipped, clothes came off and fell on other pantless men 😱

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@SW-User That's a horrific ratio of exes to be poached. I bet it doesn't make it easy to trust someone new.

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@SW-User I blame myself for it as I gravitated to those types and pretended not to see the telltale signs. There were plenty of other women that were great.
I'm still able to trust people but learned to not ignore gut feelings and obvious signs of foul play. Stepped outside my comfort zone in terms of dating and met someone that satisfies my needs and vice versa.
Letting bad experiences hold you hostage for the rest of your life is something I wish no one allows to happen to themselves. They are lessons, not shackles, after all.
I'm still able to trust people but learned to not ignore gut feelings and obvious signs of foul play. Stepped outside my comfort zone in terms of dating and met someone that satisfies my needs and vice versa.
Letting bad experiences hold you hostage for the rest of your life is something I wish no one allows to happen to themselves. They are lessons, not shackles, after all.

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@SW-User Very mature. :)