What type of person really irritates you?

@SW-User YES. I’m a good charity person. I need to tell everyone how much I’ve done for charity but I can treat people I know like complete shit.

@PaleandPolluted You sound very charming! 😂

@SW-User lol i mean the example of what you said

@PaleandPolluted I know, lol....was just messing with you. I know you are not one of these people.

@SW-User I think people like that think that people who are healthy are deserving of being treated like shite. Something strange.

@PaleandPolluted I think sometimes the people doing it are extremely unhealthy and unable to deal with themselves and it makes them feel unwanted. Lots of us get to that point. But the people I speak of are the ones that don't mind drowning others in some desperate attempt to keep themselves above water.

@SW-User @PaleandPolluted I can’t speak for others but many of the things I do in my life for others are in an effort to not feel like a total fucking waste of a person. That’s probably selfish on some level... but if I truly help people in need, do my internal motivations really matter?

@DarkHeaven I'd imagine most people feel the drive to help others because of the positive feelings it gives themselves. I don't see anything selfish about that.

@SW-User It gets me out of myself sometimes. It helps me and it helps them. Eventually I come back to the fact I am worthless but at least I have a few moments...

@DarkHeaven Well if there's benefit for both parties then I see no wrong.

@DarkHeaven yeah, but I mean people who have to announce they’ve done good to get praise but yet they treat people they know like crap because their isn’t anything to be gained from that.

@PaleandPolluted I try to avoid Narcissists that are like that. I tend to amplify things and they are very dangerous to me. 🦋🤗