Why do I not have feelings for any woman anymore?

Getting hurt by multiple women, it's hard to fully trust and let go. Plus ive been super focused on myself since becoming a veteran. Is something wrong with me?

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Bleed · 41-45, F

I’m in a similar position. I’m really struggling to get over a break up. He’s hurt me so deeply that I’m a complete mess. I hate being alone and it’s causing anxiety and severe depression but how am I suppose to open myself up to this level of pain again?
I think you’re doing the right thing focusing on yourself. If you’re happy on your own then I wouldn’t worry.

EugeneLovesLife · 36-40, M

@Bleed i am. But I've changed so much for the better and i sometimes think it would be nice to share my happiness with someone. Again, just a thought.

Bleed · 41-45, F

Then you’re in a good place. Someone will come along when you least expect it. But you can always share that with friends or in here. You clearly didn’t change for anybody but to be a better version of yourself.

EugeneLovesLife · 36-40, M

@Bleed i'm glad you were able to see it. And i appreciate your kind and honest words. Thank you