Does this make me a bad person .

I decided that if I'm ever going to be sleeping around . I won't ever hookup with someone who has more than one kid with different woman, cause if I ever got pregnant .... just no hell no .

Then what's still pending is would I with a person who has a number of kids with one woman or even just one kid . Right now it's a yes but like you know pending

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Serenitree · F Best Comment

I'm assuming you meant bad person.

No. Not bad, but if you choose to sleep around, no matter who he is, just take great care not to get pregnant, because, even if he has no children yet, doesn't mean he would be a good bet as a dad. It just means, so far, he hasn't abandoned any children.....at least, none he's told you about.

Pureblossom · 22-25, F

@Serenitree For sure he has to be dad material and a good person otherwise I wouldn't find him attractive to begin with.

I just mentioned only that children thing because it's recent on my list .

You did make a good point though, just because he has not done it yet, doesn't mean he won't. I had not thought about it that way .

Sleeping around just has a possibility of more cons than pros tbh. Pre marital sex too if divorce rates weren't so high .

Turns out no matter what you do there is always a change of your ideal family being ruined, the childhood and family unit you would like for your potential children .

Serenitree · F

@Pureblossom Yes. Unfortunately. Even a really decent relationship with a truly good and caring man who is a good father can end in a second, if he dies suddenly, like my grandson-in-law.

Serenitree · F

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ZenKitzune · F

The older you get the more baggage people have. It doesn't mean they are bad people, life just happens that way sometimes.

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