@LadyBronte In many cases I agree, but each of us has our perceptions, and our perceptions are our truth. Who then, if our perceptions differ, is to decide which is the "real" truth? Just food for thought.
I might think you're a great guy. But if you're running around behind my back hacking off people's body parts with a butcher knife, you're pretty much a piece of shit. My uninformed perception of you doesn't change that fact.