other women not wanting kids?

I never want to have children and yes I know people always say your 23 your still young. I never liked children as a kid I did not play family, I still do not like or want children. I hate how much pressure there is from my family and anyone who meets me to have children. I keep telling them i do not want any, its not a legal requirement to have children. I hate when people say you will change your mind.the thing that really hurts me is that my parents say your takeing away my ability to be a grandparent and continue our bloodline. I do not want to hurt my parents but if i have a child i will be hurting the child because i would be a bad parent. you should not have children unless you really want children. Anyone elce feel like they never want to have children?

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Crazywaterspring · 61-69, M

Your life your choice. However, always use protection. You know what is best for you.

Girlyfriendcollecting · F

@Crazywaterspring yea thanks exactly, I tell people I think I'm going to make a bad mother and they are like no you will be a fantastic mother and I'm like how do you know? and they say you change when you have children you love them even if you hate all other children. But if that is not the case for me then i am stuck raising a kid who is going to have an unhappy life and that is worse then never finding out the joys of having a child.