other women not wanting kids?

I never want to have children and yes I know people always say your 23 your still young. I never liked children as a kid I did not play family, I still do not like or want children. I hate how much pressure there is from my family and anyone who meets me to have children. I keep telling them i do not want any, its not a legal requirement to have children. I hate when people say you will change your mind.the thing that really hurts me is that my parents say your takeing away my ability to be a grandparent and continue our bloodline. I do not want to hurt my parents but if i have a child i will be hurting the child because i would be a bad parent. you should not have children unless you really want children. Anyone elce feel like they never want to have children?

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nonsensiclesnail · F

Never wanted them either.
I have a difficult time understanding why other people do want them.

Mind you, I have them. I was not and am not a perfect mom. But I did and do my job. My eldest son has a son now, and he is wonderful. But I hope there are no more grandchildren in my future.

Girlyfriendcollecting · F

@nonsensiclesnail I feel that way too, I'm not maternal and I do not understand why people would want them. My parents both are the really children loving people and I don't get it. At least you will never pressure your kids to have children. its hard for many people with children to understand how people that don't want children feel.