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Is falling in love a natural instinct humans have?

Or is it something we're conditioned into experiencing when certain factors meet?
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BabyLonia · F
It's instinct. I don't think we can control it.
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@BabyLonia I wonder if it existed before civilisation.
BabyLonia · F
@SW-User I think so, when we were hunter gatherers there would be units
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@BabyLonia There would be togetherness. But could that togetherness be seen as being 'in love'?
BabyLonia · F
@SW-User I'm guessing they would mourn their deaths, but yea they might not be writing poetry and stuff 😂
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@BabyLonia LOL!! They present with berries from women or hunts from men. Special cuts for their sweeties.
BabyLonia · F
@SW-User quite possibly did. But it's got me thinking, just because they weren't civilised doesn't mean they didn't feel.

Although I remember reading ages ago that the seven year itch is actually more akin to four years because when we were hunter gatherers 4 years would be the time it would take for you to breed have a child that no longer needed a mans care. I cannot remember it in much depth it was forever ago
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@BabyLonia Interesting to think about. Or even find out, lol.
BabyLonia · F
@SW-User it is

I still think you'd enjoy the writings of Alice Roberts, especially her anthropological ones
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@BabyLonia I probably will. :) When it calls for me, I'll answer it. :P