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Seriously

A male/female abuser/harasser insisting to be the reason of a person’s triumphs in life needs to get over himself/herself?

Isn’t it common sense placing anyone in psychologically/phycially harmful situations only increase inapt courses in life if he/she isn’t psychologically/physically prepared/happy/devoted/commited
/dedicated to changes? She/he can 100% psychologically/physically malfunction; you ever visit the Psychiatric Hospital?

Ultimately the person decides vital decisions for herself/himself. they have nothing to do with the abusers/harassers/traumas; the abusers/psychological & physical trauma(s) are never derivations of strengths. They internally excrete pains, negativities, despairs, hatred, etc, while demolishing energies/souls of the hosts.
Maybe the followings reasons are why the majority of individuals still need additional/external inspirations, motivations, salvations, strengths, guidances/support, etc?
Sure, external assistances are available, however a person’s qualities, characters, commitments,resiliences, preservances, self-esteems, adaptabilites, virtues, beliefs, priorities, values, principles, faiths, capabilities, etc are all needed/essential for the correct course in life. Willingness/accepting/capable of changes are pivotal indicators for better decisions.

The abusers/traumas aren’t included in the survivors future for obvious reasons, so abusers/harassers need to irrelevantly stop reliving/inserting/reminiscing/obsessing
/bitching over themselves/survivors(the past) regarding the survivors’s new life/present/future/anything. The past is in the past(,unless using it as a warning sign).
Catastrophes & turmoils by abusers/harassers are never the reasons how/why anyone become successful/who they/he/she are/is.

Personally, there’s no existence of a broken/damaged person.
She/he simply know better now, than making identical mistake/error twice.
Lessons were learnt.
It’s a choice/freedom/right to change.
Altering is inevitable for an ethical life


Traumas, adversities, trials, harassers/abusers, past, etc never define an individual. They never psychologically/physically made a person stronger/kinder. The person’s personal/own decisions to survive/thrive/live/accept changes are the solutions/reasonings.

(P.S. Audiences, all my posts under “Personal, Thoughts, Feelings” are literally my personal experiences/scrutinies. I appreciate anyone sharing their personal experiences/sentiments in response to my post(s), although do you agree or not with me? That’s irrelevant/negligible to me as we’re all unique individuals in different realities. Having divergent experiences thus different/tailored (selt-)facts/notions/realism. Thanks)


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28/01/2018
No offences

All my life I never initiated disputes first/at all(10000000000000% uninterested x infinity x eternity 🤦🏻‍♀️😐😴); I solely defended myself. They get envious/bitchy/hateful when I’m incorrect😐. (I’m anti-dramas/gossips/conflicts
/negativities/sins/bitches/haters thus there’s nil motive/benefit for me to waste time on the followings x infinity x eternity🤷🏻‍♀️😐. I only speak up when I need to.

I inevitably apologise when I’m wrong. I believe in changes/adaptability/open-mindedness/kindness/refining/improving. I do my best to mend everything asap. I can’t anticipate forgiveness as I respect other’s personal decisions/limitations in life)

I effortly slaughtered people out of my lives for legitiment psychology/physical health’s purposes. As it was never my fault first, the sharp slash was unforeseen/incomprehensible to them. I never/can’t forgive/forget.


I learn quick, yet I move on quickest. They end up stalking/obsessing/hating/bitching over the the ghosts of me since they’re in disbelief of who I am. I felt sorry for them, nevertheless it wasn’t my fault they misinterpreted my kindness was weakness😐. My kindness is strength❤️😴.

Some people battle their lives to be kind as their past consist traumas/tribulations/ordeals/adversities. It’s obvious why they’re wise/mature. They survive to never repeat the “weak abusive cycle” of the weak abusers.

Kindness is a choice. It’s strengths/intelligences/wisdoms.

Overly kind people are kind as they empathise how it feels to be hurt thus they never wish it upon another x infinity x eternity. They know better

Some people are too kind for your comprehensions/beliefs if you aren’t kind yourself, or your never experience pure kindness. You’ll justify it with hidden motives as it’s incomprehensible to you. Some people have nil hidden motives; it opposes to their virtues/values/beliefs(who they are).

Time is answer. yes, It’s best to never assume motives then judging everything/everyone via assumptions(directly ask/100000000% know person, simple ).

Negativity, cynicism, pessimistic, etc are only combating against someone returning to be genuinely kind.

Negativity, cynicism, pessimistic, etc themselves aren’t kind at all thus why you’re referencing them to seek/understand legitimate kindness?

There’s a new generation of kindness. Kindess is strength. It’s strong. Weak people masking/justifying their insecurities(whatever their issues are) via Negativity, cynicism, pessimism, etc to witness the downfall of one another of our human race are acceptable.

⚠️Clarification: It’s my personal post. It’s called freedom of speech. I can expose anyone since they desperately/ignorantly/enviously
/obsessively harassed me first(it’s self-defence). There’re differences between exposing haters/bitches via posts, and caring about what haters/bitches think/say. Thank you⚠️

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31/01/2018
🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔
Social statuses(people’s professions in life were driven/achieved/motivated by divergent purposes/influences)and characters/virtues/compatibilities(who they are as a person)are dimentions apart. It’s global.

Skills/accumulated-knowledges are skills/informations mastered/memorised for anyone wishing to be devoted).[/u] Simple. These’re insignificant to me🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️. It’s not a big deal 😐.

These’re prime awarenesses why I love/respect/support/honour people’s kindness, considerations, respectfulness, understandings, etc in their hearts/souls/consciousness/unique-intelligences instead of their present social statuses/wealth.

I’m always in awe by who I respect/love/admire most at the end.They’re never always apparent/fluorescent.
I need you to know that I admire/respect/love your existence/survival in life. Thank you very for much who you are❤️. I’m inspired/aspired.
My senses/rationales are blind/distracted/attacked/hacked at times. I’m sorry for not being perfect/genius/flawless hence I can’t always distinguish you in crowd (straight away).
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masterofyou · 70-79, M
Great point and great post.... There are a lot of broken abused people here... I wish all of them and you peace....