Do Men TRULY like/want a confident woman?

I hear men often say that they like a confident female, but is this really so? Most men have the natural instinct to be the "rescuer" and seem to gravitate towards women needing some type of emotional support. A woman who comes across as confident may be seen as less desirable and to independent (not needing to be rescued) Does this inclination to rescue lead them away from the type of female they claim to appreciate?

*Open to anyone to answer. This is not a moral or political statement and directed at no one. It is food for thought and treat it as such:)*

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Rocknrod · 61-69, M

I think it depends on circumstances. It can be good in some but bad in others

ravenwind43 · 51-55, F

@Rocknrod This post was never to imply that women "don't need a man", though I think it was taken that way. Confidence isn't about arrogance, but the ability to handle situations and have inner awareness of ones strength and abilities. A woman can't always be strong but it does seem at times some men gravitate to women who seem emotionally troubled due to an onward desire to rescue her. Thanks for your comment:)

Rocknrod · 61-69, M

@ravenwind43 What I meant confidence is good but not to the point of cockiness.