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Do Men TRULY like/want a confident woman?

I hear men often say that they like a confident female, but is this really so? Most men have the natural instinct to be the "rescuer" and seem to gravitate towards women needing some type of emotional support. A woman who comes across as confident may be seen as less desirable and to independent (not needing to be rescued) Does this inclination to rescue lead them away from the type of female they claim to appreciate?

*Open to anyone to answer. This is not a moral or political statement and directed at no one. It is food for thought and treat it as such:)*
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Thatsright · 61-69, M
Only if the man has confidence. There is a fine line between confidence and arrogance.
Magenta · F
Indeed. And some mistake boldness for confidence. True confidence is more quiet I think.@Thatsright
ravenwind43 · 51-55, F
@Magenta Excellent! I have always said that myself. Cocky is loud, confidence is quiet:)
Magenta · F
We really are on the same wave length. 😃I say that too!
Insecurity speaks the loudest because it feels it has something to prove.

But even a little doubt in a confident person can be good I think. Arrogance will always think it's right.
@ravenwind43
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@Magenta Oh my gosh!!! I think you dont know what you are saying
ravenwind43 · 51-55, F
@Magenta Indeed. Even the most confident people are going to have their moments...part of human nature. I like the way you think!:)💜