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SW-User
Well according to Buddhist teaching - hate is like swallowing poison then sitting back and waiting for it to kill the 'enemy'
You have a choice. If your rels are toxic give yourself some space. You may find out you are part of the problem OR you may find a way to make peace with their imperfections OR you may decide that maintaining distance is psychologically the most healthy thing you can do
You have a choice. If your rels are toxic give yourself some space. You may find out you are part of the problem OR you may find a way to make peace with their imperfections OR you may decide that maintaining distance is psychologically the most healthy thing you can do
Cgr1994 · 26-30, M
@SW-User I'd still be angry
SW-User
@Cgr1994 angry is normal and can be helpful letting us know something needs to change - what isn't helpful is doing the same thing and expecting different results
SW-User
@Cgr1994 like what?
Cgr1994 · 26-30, M
@SW-User like my love of 9yrs ditching me
SW-User
@Cgr1994 that is traumatic. Sorry that happened to you. Change we aren't in control of can make us 'damn near crazy'