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ElPhonse · M
Veronicajane, its a long story but i was a chronuc flirt. Honestly i sought attention from women and some actually came to think i was available because of this, but i wasnt. I was so bad. I kept my hands to myself but my words led many women to thunk i wasnt happy at home and that i wasopen to fooling around. My exwife found out and it caused her to doubt me and t9 feel like she wasnt enough for me. After the separation and eventual divorce, i never was the same again. I am here out of loneliness and feeling very broken. Life does not hold any hope for me. I never slept with nor kissed any of those women. There are so many men who's wives forgave them for having affairs. Even though i didnt, here i am. Alone and deeply depressed. Men have feelings too and remorse. 😭
@ElPhonse I can see the sense of being forlorne. It is worse because it is the result of what you did, not anyone else.
You said separation and divorce. Apparently the separation failed to get your attention or change your behavior.
Your ex wife is entitled to her decisions.
It has been a very hard lesson to learn.
Once you hit rock bottom, where else is there to go?
Your future appears to be with some one else. The choice is yours to move on and turn your life around.
Next time, don't make that mistake again.
Show the people in your life that you became a better person for this.
Don't let those who'd just write you off to win. Show them they were wrong.
You said separation and divorce. Apparently the separation failed to get your attention or change your behavior.
Your ex wife is entitled to her decisions.
It has been a very hard lesson to learn.
Once you hit rock bottom, where else is there to go?
Your future appears to be with some one else. The choice is yours to move on and turn your life around.
Next time, don't make that mistake again.
Show the people in your life that you became a better person for this.
Don't let those who'd just write you off to win. Show them they were wrong.
ElPhonse · M
I have learned my lesson but it is too late. I found out that i have "abandonement issues along with other problems and issues from my childhood. I never knew how pkwerful these problems cpuld be. Living alone sucks. I cant just "move on". . Lonely and thats why im here.
@ElPhonse we all have issues. The point is are you going to sit and wallow, or pick yourself up. Kill your self if you really want, BUT I think you are far better than that.
Will it be easy? Heck no. But it beats the alternative. Small steps at first. Pick yourself up and learn to walk again.
Will it be easy? Heck no. But it beats the alternative. Small steps at first. Pick yourself up and learn to walk again.
littlepinklotus · 41-45, F
Because your life is not over yet. I don't know the circumstances and I'm sure its hard but things do get better. Hugs
Why is your spouse not with you?
ElPhonse · M
@VeronicaJane I love her still but i was a flirt. I never meant to make her feel like i wanted someone else
@ElPhonse is she dead?
@ElPhonse so she felt like you wanted someone else and she divorced you? Sounds like that ship has set sail without you.
Not to be brutal, but didn't you cause it? Now you can flirt to your hearts content without guilt.
Your life is not over. Maybe you've learned something that will apply when you find someone else.
It's hard. It's not fun. But it will get better. Maybe just not as soon as you like.
Not to be brutal, but didn't you cause it? Now you can flirt to your hearts content without guilt.
Your life is not over. Maybe you've learned something that will apply when you find someone else.
It's hard. It's not fun. But it will get better. Maybe just not as soon as you like.
Fernie · F
what does that mean? You want to die? Because a relationship ended somehow? Hope not
ElPhonse · M
Wont do it but today would be a good day to die.