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rckt148 路 61-69, M
@SW-User Dear pardon my answer ,I know in text its hard to get I meant no disrespect or to imply you were unable to handle the truth .
I prefer to help people solve problems ,be a peace maker ,point out their good qualities and value as to a empty lie
I will withhold the truth sometimes if I know it will cause harm to others ,or purposely hurt someone ,
But I have learned people who love me tell me the truth ,even when its hard to take sometimes ,
I have learned that a lie ,even when its well meaning is still a lie
I prefer the truth ,even when it hurt's ,at least I know where I stand .
I have had to many people lie to me thinking it was for my own good ,when in fact all they did was enable someone to keep hurting me and make me think I was the one who had the problem ,
So I meant you no disrespect ,I am sure I could do a better job comforting you with the truth then I could a lie
I suck at lying ,I don't do it enough to be good at it
so you would see right through it anyway
and if you ask me if I'm lying ,I can't keep a straight face if I say no ,
And since you imply you can handle the truth ,,would you not prefer someone you could trust ? who you know will give you a straight forward answer ?
I promise you ,I would never hurt you on purpose
I would treat you with the same honest and respect I would want you to show me
I prefer to help people solve problems ,be a peace maker ,point out their good qualities and value as to a empty lie
I will withhold the truth sometimes if I know it will cause harm to others ,or purposely hurt someone ,
But I have learned people who love me tell me the truth ,even when its hard to take sometimes ,
I have learned that a lie ,even when its well meaning is still a lie
I prefer the truth ,even when it hurt's ,at least I know where I stand .
I have had to many people lie to me thinking it was for my own good ,when in fact all they did was enable someone to keep hurting me and make me think I was the one who had the problem ,
So I meant you no disrespect ,I am sure I could do a better job comforting you with the truth then I could a lie
I suck at lying ,I don't do it enough to be good at it
so you would see right through it anyway
and if you ask me if I'm lying ,I can't keep a straight face if I say no ,
And since you imply you can handle the truth ,,would you not prefer someone you could trust ? who you know will give you a straight forward answer ?
I promise you ,I would never hurt you on purpose
I would treat you with the same honest and respect I would want you to show me
SW-User
@rckt148 I did not need comfort. It was a flippant question. I take no offense, we are all really allowed to speak our minds.
rckt148 路 61-69, M
@SW-User dear again I am sorry ,guess I missed it all the way around ,
I have been lied to most of my life even by the Christians and well doers ,and my last response was I guess an assumption too
" But even those who can handle the truth may like to feel the softness of a lie." ?would you not assume that means comforted ?the softness of a lie?
but pardon me ,I defend your right to say what ever you like as long as its not meant to harm others ,,so excuse me I did not mean to imply anything
the past was vague and I can't tell if you were someone needing a kind word or you actually prefer lies ,,at least until you reveal more about what you meant ,
I was just trying to be honest ,and nice
screen name ,pic ,vague post ,,guess I read to much into it
Sorry
have a good day
I have been lied to most of my life even by the Christians and well doers ,and my last response was I guess an assumption too
" But even those who can handle the truth may like to feel the softness of a lie." ?would you not assume that means comforted ?the softness of a lie?
but pardon me ,I defend your right to say what ever you like as long as its not meant to harm others ,,so excuse me I did not mean to imply anything
the past was vague and I can't tell if you were someone needing a kind word or you actually prefer lies ,,at least until you reveal more about what you meant ,
I was just trying to be honest ,and nice
screen name ,pic ,vague post ,,guess I read to much into it
Sorry
have a good day
SW-User
@rckt148 Do we only watch a fantasy movie when we are in need of an escape? Sometimes a break is all it is, without a need for a comfort. That can answer your qn - [quote] But even those who can handle the truth may like to feel the softness of a lie." ?would you not assume that means comforted ?the softness of a lie?[/quote]
It is always best not to project ourselves to other people, yet I know this is difficult. We do not know each others trials and tribulations or lives in general, sometimes it is best to ask before assuming.
Thank you.
It is always best not to project ourselves to other people, yet I know this is difficult. We do not know each others trials and tribulations or lives in general, sometimes it is best to ask before assuming.
Thank you.