misaki · 26-30, F
depends upon them

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@misaki True.
Andrew19EightyFive · 36-40, M
Sorry.
I can understand if you want to interact and share thoughts and express your creativity on here without such personal assumptions and feelings being involved; if such things are spoiling your experience on here.
It can be easy for people to assume or imagine that such things are there when they're not, notably when much about the different aspects of communications (such as body language) aren't involved--such as over the internet on a social networking site. I think in many instances, people "see" what they choose to see or want to see--or jump to inappropriately or inadequately qualified conclusions based on little evidence (or something that may be interpreted as evidence).
What advise to give...? Maybe it would be helpful if people included explicitly in their headline or on their profile that, for instance, if they answer your questions or interact with you a lot, it does not mean that they're romantically interested--"please do not assume that".
I can imagine that it may be necessary to do such a thing (as more explicitly address the issue) if the precedent has already been set on such a site as this of other people behaving romantically towards one another, doing like things that may easily be interpreted (like a blanket stereotype) to be evidence of similar romantic interest.
I can understand if you want to interact and share thoughts and express your creativity on here without such personal assumptions and feelings being involved; if such things are spoiling your experience on here.
It can be easy for people to assume or imagine that such things are there when they're not, notably when much about the different aspects of communications (such as body language) aren't involved--such as over the internet on a social networking site. I think in many instances, people "see" what they choose to see or want to see--or jump to inappropriately or inadequately qualified conclusions based on little evidence (or something that may be interpreted as evidence).
What advise to give...? Maybe it would be helpful if people included explicitly in their headline or on their profile that, for instance, if they answer your questions or interact with you a lot, it does not mean that they're romantically interested--"please do not assume that".
I can imagine that it may be necessary to do such a thing (as more explicitly address the issue) if the precedent has already been set on such a site as this of other people behaving romantically towards one another, doing like things that may easily be interpreted (like a blanket stereotype) to be evidence of similar romantic interest.
SapphicHeart · F
@Andrew19EightyFive
Maybe we should include every disclaimer of our staying here inside every post/comment we make. Our profiles aren't being read for whatever it counts.
Maybe we should include every disclaimer of our staying here inside every post/comment we make. Our profiles aren't being read for whatever it counts.
Andrew19EightyFive · 36-40, M
@SapphicHeart If a user is romantically interested in another user, s/he is probably going to visit the profile and see the headline or introductory statement.
Even if they don't see it, or it's in the summary and they don't see it, if a romantic interest were mistakenly interpreted, one could refer to such statement and say something like, "I do apologise that you interpreted the situation like this, but I did make my situation in relation to this site explicitly clear--didn't you read it?"
Even if they don't see it, or it's in the summary and they don't see it, if a romantic interest were mistakenly interpreted, one could refer to such statement and say something like, "I do apologise that you interpreted the situation like this, but I did make my situation in relation to this site explicitly clear--didn't you read it?"
SapphicHeart · F
@Andrew19EightyFive
Nobel thought, maybe... but...
1) Why should it be necessary to announce what we aren't into at SW?
2) Even though I've stated clearly that I am lesbian, I'll still get plenty of male accounts trying to get involved with me in such ways not wished for.
I don't get it, why do people who're using this place as intended have to make a lot of efforts to meet the needs of others that won't get it?
Nobel thought, maybe... but...
1) Why should it be necessary to announce what we aren't into at SW?
2) Even though I've stated clearly that I am lesbian, I'll still get plenty of male accounts trying to get involved with me in such ways not wished for.
I don't get it, why do people who're using this place as intended have to make a lot of efforts to meet the needs of others that won't get it?
No. They must be very bored with too much time on their hands.

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@MissMollyCharlotte0702 Hahahah!!!

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Of course!

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@SW-User 🤦 LOL
in10RjFox · M
depends on their answer though!... whether they are trying to connect or just troll..
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in10RjFox · M
@SW-User well.. people take their own grasp from what is in public ..
my final response .. as I have pm'd successfully my final response ..
The End .. for now..
my final response .. as I have pm'd successfully my final response ..
The End .. for now..
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Miram · 31-35, F
@in10RjFox
You display a belief that people are obliged to engage in your plays and twists, answer to your expectations, rather narcissistic and such a fuzzy logic
This explains why you went after me with your other account. I ignored this one when I first joined similar worlds.
The more you learn..
You display a belief that people are obliged to engage in your plays and twists, answer to your expectations, rather narcissistic and such a fuzzy logic
This explains why you went after me with your other account. I ignored this one when I first joined similar worlds.
The more you learn..
Miram · 31-35, F
No. I don't build those kinds of expectations.
And in instances where they do like me, I don't become dependent on it.
Most people are here to pass time.
And in instances where they do like me, I don't become dependent on it.
Most people are here to pass time.
Randall · 31-35, M
Only when they offer extremely thoughtful, or short but clever answers on a consistent basis.

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@Randall It is one thing to be drawn to someone because of what they have to say or ask......and quite another to be into them.
Randall · 31-35, M
@SW-User A fair distinction. I guess if we were going to start talking about the metaphysics of attraction, I'd ask you to define your terms.
To bring us back to your question itself: I don't have a huge ego, but a part of me likes knowing when people find me compelling, in any capacity. Personally, I'd still just ask.
To bring us back to your question itself: I don't have a huge ego, but a part of me likes knowing when people find me compelling, in any capacity. Personally, I'd still just ask.

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@Randall That's a good way to go about it, asking.
Thanos · 31-35, M
duh yeah that's what it means
Thanos · 31-35, M
@SW-User no no no just potato nothing else :O

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@Thanos Okay.. Just potato and silly banana.
Thanos · 31-35, M
@SW-User no banana just potato

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It happens so rarely, so what else am i to think!! *_^

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@SW-User Don't be daft. 'Tis the silent waters that run deep. :P

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@SW-User Writes that down, as it resembles some tantalizing clue!! 😏

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@SW-User :P

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i have left comments in more than one of your posts .. i must be head over heels in love with you xD xD xD

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@SW-User LOL!!! I have absolutely no problem with that. :D

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@SW-User well then 😏 .. no problem with me being in love with you? 😏 *gets excited* xD

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@SW-User LOL.🙈🙊

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Of course, we're practically married 😏

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@SW-User 🙈 Does this mean I am cheating on you when other people answer my qns too? :P

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@SW-User it does, I'm ok for now 😓

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@SW-User Sigh, lol. :D
💁 I know there's a reason people respond
not cause of me
cause of the content
I put out sometimes on the feed- that's why
not cause of me
cause of the content
I put out sometimes on the feed- that's why

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@SirDurpsAlot Smart!
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@yondu 🤣
MasterofNone · 26-30, M
Depends on the context. It doesn't matter though. Once I've set my eyes on someone they will be into me sooner or later lol

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@MasterofNone Wow! That is intense.
Equanimous · 51-55, M
I do not ask questions here but this is an uncomfortable thought to get when I have to take the next interview :)

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@Equanimous LOL.
clamenza · 56-60, M
I'm thinking so
summersong · F
You mean that isn’t what it means? 😥

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@summersong 🙊 I no longer know what it means. I am so confused, lol.
summersong · F
@SW-User Lol! I really just figure people who comment regularly on my posts are being friendly 😊

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@summersong Absolutely. :)

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Duh, of course ! 😂

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@SW-User 😘 You're obviously flirting with me if you respond ...😂

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@SW-User 🤣 Lets make it official then. 😘

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@SW-User 🤣
Nat15 · F
No, but I'm too quick to believe that people are into me...sometimes I mistake kindness for attraction. :/
5thApprentice · 31-35, M
No, that won't end well. Lol

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@5thApprentice LOL you's smart!
5thApprentice · 31-35, M
@SW-User If only 😂😅

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@5thApprentice LOL
majesticsea · 31-35, F
Haha no. Especially more so in similarworlds.

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@majesticsea Yep. I mean, considering it's one of the activities around here.
juiceyangel333 · 31-35, F
Sometimes. It depends who though

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@juiceyangel333 Oh? Lol
Barelygettingby · 56-60, F
Nah.
in10RjFox · M
Do you actually believe people are into you when they answer more than one question from you?
Lol.
Lol.
and maybe you didn't realize that you put a Lol .. as part of the question itself .. which is a mockery .. as if other's are fools and you are smart ...
but now why did you end the convo .. when you know that i am not on to you .. ???
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@SW-User there are different type of terrorists in this world. Cyber bullying is a form of terrorism in my opinion. Looks to me like that person is one.

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@SW-User Yes, I believe you are right.

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Uh, yeah. I'm not thinking so. Lol
SapphicHeart · F
Nope.
BabyLonia · F
I answer all your questions.....I must be so into you 😏