What most turns you off from a person?

@Andromeda224 I wouldn't appreciate that either. Have you ever met someone that complains about everything though? That is the complaining I speak of. When nothing is ever good enough, and they always have to let that be known no matter how you try to accommodate

Yes, I know what kind of people you speak of. Trauma victims, survivors of self harm and substance abuse, people who want to be heard. One should always hear them out and refrain from judgement <3

@Andromeda224 None of those experiences warrant constant bitching though? lol It has nothing to do with judgement. If I give a hungry trauma victim a sandwich & all they have to say is about how I should have used more mayo and less lettuce.. I'm going to judge, & my judgment is that they need to complain less

I see what you mean now