How to handle this?

My brother is only 16 and his girlfriend is 15, the girlfriend is pregnant for two months now. The girl's mother called and told me to go to their house tomorrow to talk about the situitio. I dont know what should I do or say. What are your thoughts about this?
I've been taking care of my youngest brother since he was a baby when my parebt are separated so he is like a son to me now im really sad.

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anythingoes477 · M

Time for brother to grow up. If he's old enough to create a child, he's old enough to deal with the consequences. Stay out of it.

yuki4you · 31-35, F

@anythingoes477 I just can't underage can't work here. So at the end hia problem is also mine.

anythingoes477 · M

@yuki4you But when you take the step of becoming a man---you get the responsibilities with it. At some point he's gonna have to face consequences----underage or not. For instance---child support.

yuki4you · 31-35, F

@anythingoes477 I explained those matters to him. He is a bright kid he was just not careful with his action.

anythingoes477 · M

@yuki4you And.............as long as others cover for him he will NEVER see a downside to screwing up. Being bailed out---no matter how good of a reason you think it is to do it----teaches him nothing.

yuki4you · 31-35, F

@anythingoes477 I know and I see he is trying to be the man for his family at such young age. He can't apply for work but he find ways to help his own family with his own ability so I am just like a support when things are too difficult to handle he feed his family with his own ability.

anythingoes477 · M

@yuki4you You sound like you are a rock. Great character and great family values. family....first. That is why I adore Asian women. Values American women DON'T have. Plus you are very attractive--I think. Could I see a better pic of you??

yuki4you · 31-35, F

@anythingoes477 I fall and could not reply to the message. Thank you for tje comments.