Men, What Does it feel like to be a guy?

I know for every man its different so, tell me your thoughts. I feel like there's a lot to know and things that men keep hidden / don't think to tell about.

Men make me so curious. I just want to know all that I can.

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Emarky · 31-35, M Best Comment

when you are super horny you have less chance to get some girl. when you are depressed because you are alone you are having even lesser chances when you like some girl so much that you are losing your mind you have almost 0 chances. when you are scared to approach a woman she will never do this for you. when you just end a relationship you have significantly less chances to have sex with random girls in order to forget about your ex faster. when there is some confrontation with other men you have to fight and in most cases you are more scared than the girl lol you have to make more money than your woman. when you are sensitive and depressed nobody is willing to help you and girls don't fucking care about your emotional condition they want positive and confident men but when 99% of the girlls you approach are rejecting you is really hard to swallow it and be confident again. women have completely different way of thinking and as a typical man you will struggle a lot to figure it out and even if you have honest and good plans for that girl she will reject for some unknown to you reason. you have to fight with the constant fear that your girl could be cheating because as a woman she can do it without any effort at any time and you will never know. we can talk more in private if you are interested

Quizzical · 46-50, M

@Emarky Sums a lot of it up really

Emarky · 31-35, M

when you make sex you are the one who have to be skillful and good in bed. you have to know how to touch a woman even though her genitals are way smaller than yours and most of the spots are hidden so it is very hard to understand how things works down there. when you are a man you are most likely having average small dick and that is a huge struggle. you feel like disabled and you know that you can never compete with someone with a bigger one because he will have advantage no matter what you do. you know also that you can never give some orgasms that your woman can feel only with a big dick. when you go to the beach with briefs and you are ashamed that your dick is so small especially when the water is cold. when you are at the gym's bath you are ashamed that your dick is small also. when you are wearing revealing clothes you are ashamed that you don't have big bulge in your pants.

Emarky · 31-35, M

when you see a beautiful woman and you want to approach her and be original and interesting and make her laugh while at the same time you are super nervous you have to act natural. when you finally has the courage to approach her you open your mouth and most likely you sound so unconfident and your words are not complete and she often can't understand what you said lol. things are getting even worst if she acts like frozen queen and make you freeze just with her eyes. and the moment you are rejected while there are other people around who can hear and see this and you want to disappear but still act cool and manly.
the moment when you see a beautiful woman on the street and you force your self to not look at her like an idiot and pretend that you didn't notice her but it feels like you have to put all your will and energy into keeping your eyes away from that girl but no matter what you do they (your eyes) will look at that woman at least for a split of a second and then your mind is going crazy and talking to you how hot that lady is.

Emarky · 31-35, M

or when you go to the beach and there are half naked women everywhere around you and you are giving your best to not stare but wherever you put your eyes there is some naked part of woman's body and you are trying to look only at the little sandy paths between the towels. and your mind is freaking out while you are trying to stay focused and not thinking about sex.
or when you are outside and your dick decides to get hard for no apparent reason and even if you have a small dick it is obvious that you got a boner and you try to hide it when you crouch to tie your shoes or when you put something infront to cover it. but your dick have the tendency to keep that erection longer when you want it to stop.
or when you meet a woman for first time and she asks about your job and you don't have a good one knowing you will lose points with this answer but you can't avoid it

Emarky · 31-35, M

or when you are having sex with a woman you really like and you are ready to orgasm a couple of minutes after the start and you have to find a way to not do it. and you start to think about little sick puppies or you start to calculate the distance between the moon and the earth or thinking about the exam you are having and how you didn't study for it. but normally these things help only for a while and eventually you will have to make short stops during the sex but your mind (or the girl) is telling you that she wants to get pounded hard and steady.
or when you decide to cum fast the first time and do a second round but you either lose any desire for sex or are having trouble keeping your dick hard and the moment you get a steady boner again your orgasm is knocking on the door
or while you are having sex with her and you want to keep that good pace but at the same time trying to rub her clit with your hand and it is so fucking uncomfortable and you are so bad at multitasking and when you focus on your hand you forget to fuck her or vice versa
or telling your friends how you will fuck this girl like a beast if you had the chance and by accident later she gives you that chance but you are getting shy and don't do the last step

Emarky · 31-35, M

or everytime when you go outside you clean yourself real good beause you have the hope that a mystical woman will come from nowhere and will asks to suck your dick and it never happens
or when you stare for hours at pics/clips of motorcycles or sport cars imagining how cool you will look if you had one of them and how you will drive them like a pro better than anyone else
or when you are in a company with girls and you are doing risky things pretending that you are not scared like jumping from a cliff because you think that you will impress her but she doesn't actually care about it unless you are super good at it which you are not lol

MysteriousRose · 26-30, F

@Emarky so is a woman like me doomed to find love then?

MysteriousRose · 26-30, F

@Emarky For me I want a man who doesn't always hide and hold back how he feels inside, and always act like everything is always 100% perfect. Because I know its not and I want to be there for him. To support him in every way.

Emarky · 31-35, M

@MysteriousRose every man would like to be with a woman like you which supports him and accepts his weaknesses. you should just say/show that you like it because many women and society made us believe that we should not show any weakness or insecurity.

the very interest that you are showing about what is it to be a man is a sign of intelligence. support your man and teach him how to care for you and you will have balanced relationship. we, men are kind of blind to woman's needs. show him in an intelligent way how to care for you and that will make both of you happy and living in harmony.
he will be your fortress and pillar. and you will give to him a feeling of coziness and warmth.
men are dreaming about love too. they are just expressing it a bit weird

MysteriousRose · 26-30, F

@Emarky The world teaches people to become cold and hard and feel nothing, when it actually makes your life worse and harder to live.