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helenS · 36-40, F
He said "You haven't changed a bit in the last 15 years!"
It was meant as a compliment, but I felt insulted. He had accused me of being static.
It was meant as a compliment, but I felt insulted. He had accused me of being static.
SpectralMourning · 41-45, M
@helenS Might as well have called you a bacteria.
helenS · 36-40, F
@SpectralMourning He was surprised his "compliment" was a total turn-off, for me.
SpectralMourning · 41-45, M
@helenS I've seen people make compliments like that before, "You haven't aged a day!"....can be a fairly standard bs compliment so I imagine it did catch him off guard.
helenS · 36-40, F
@SpectralMourning Making compliments isn't always easy – but I'm sure you know how to do it right! 🌷
SpectralMourning · 41-45, M
@helenS Please, I've had my fair share of compliment fails.