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Isn't SW a place to share and speak your mind?

Learn and gather perspective?

Nothing wrong with a disagreement here and there, we're all different people, different experiences, different cultures even.

We are technically, words on screen, subject to interpretation without tone or context.

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Dainbramadge · 56-60, M
God I feel so bad when I read people censoring them selves because of a few bad apples.
Not sharing things because it's an unpopular topic or opinion is not helping any one.
I do understand most people don't exactly thrive on negative reactions to their posts but it's still sad that a few bad apples can cause someone to not feel like the can express them selves openly here.

That was the entire meaning of EP, which this is a close copy of for lack of a better phrase.
Anonymous so you don't feel like you can't share openly.
@Dainbramadge it's true. You can try to articulate yourself as well as possible, but you aren't in control of the reactions.

I think I've shared so much sad personal stuff on here I'm desensitized to the negativity I got for it 😂 kind of a lesson I needed to learn.

But damn it would be nice to just feel safe...
Yes, SW IS a place to share and speak your mind.

It's this "subject to interpretation without tone or context" business that's subject to the reader's spiritual proprioception, and seemingly, up for grabs.

People apply their own interpretations to what's said and observed, depending upon where THEY are. So, whatever it is YOU say, can have applied to it any judgment, criticism, praise, be used as fodder for argument, etc.

Some of the most innocent posts I've contributed have been met with harsh negativity and judgment. So, I've learned to pick and choose subject matter very carefully. It's certainly helped me learn to keep my mouth shut.
@PhoenixPhail you can still say what you think. I find that the best part. Observing. Seeing people have off days, I dunno, it makes me feel more human.
@MarbleMarvel I love your being here. 🤗
Tumbleweed · F
We love you too!
And yes, this is where we connect or disconnect. I've gotten some pretty snarky comments on some very peaceful posts so I always ask the person if they're being an ass or am I misunderstanding their tone. It's so easy to misunderstand without hearing the tone of voice & seeing facial expressions.
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Pretzel · 70-79, M
you can
and most people will ignore or agree with you

it's the disagreeable way that people disagree that can be a problem.

although I have to say we haven't been as confrontation and hateful as we have been in the past

that or my block button is working
@Pretzel it's that sweet beautiful block button at work
Sometimes you just have to agree to disagree. I have friends all over the political spectrum. Sometimes we don’t see eye to eye on things……. And that’s okay.
@MayorOfCrushtown we all have to decide what our tolerance level is and make choices based on the relationships we've built, it's human and tbh I find it interesting.
HowtoDestroyAngels · 46-50, M
I agree with everything you have said. Thanks for such great words!
Isn't SW a place to share and speak your mind?

🤔 Depends...
@sstronaut I assumed people would understand I didn't mean pedophelia and violence.
@MarbleMarvel Oh I wasn't going there

But Politics...

Also I've spoken my mind with some advice, and it was meant well, but it was not well received. And I was politely told to move on.
@sstronaut it happens. I blocked the maga people though. No shame.
We love you. You okay?
@SinlessOnslaught yes I'm good!
mindless · M
Absolutely and back at you😉
Yes, it is. Love to you 🖤
being · 36-40, F
Love you back ❤
Madmonk · M
Hmm. Refreshing. Sharp. Thanks
Yourwildestdreams · 51-55, M
Everyone’s entitled to there own individuality 😀
robbie2499 · 61-69, F
Very well said.
Yeah. And flirting, humour, nudes ...
SW-User
Problem is most speak their weak minds
@SW-User Or, their conditioned minds.
@SW-User at least you know they aren't your kinda people then.
SW-User
@MarbleMarvel It's lonely, being at the top.

 
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