October 4 is becoming a sad day overall

This is the 16 th anniversary of my friend passing from a car wreck instantly 😢 She was SUCH a great person, so kind, bubbly. Someone you don't see often. Her husband was unfortunately speeding and they flipped and smashed into a tree, both dying instantly. Their son was in the back and survived at 6 years old. It was just devastating. It was a double wake🙁 She was only 35.
I learned now today, that my neighbor passed away this morning. She was 80 but looked 65. She was tall and fit. I am unsure yet if she was fighting a illness or cancer.. but today is just a sad day😕