I had to go to a urologist for kidney stones for the first time. I was unaware of the doctors "private partner preferences" before he entered the examination room and eyed me like a side of beef I'm just glad he had small hands Have you ever seen how a frightened turtle reacts when startled? I can relate.... Unfortunately, my imagination was not equipped with the ability to evoke any images that displaced the situation I found myself in...
Physical touch...something all humans crave and even require. I long for physical touch, too. It is a rare pleasure anymore. Most people shy away even from friendly, playful touch. let alone intimate touch.
@Coralmist you really have to want it. imagine it in detail and resolve to get it. then voila.... the trick is closing the deal. that takes a bit of confidence and that's something you can develop little by little, I think