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Have you ever known a murderer that got away with it?

Statistically, according to one of my criminal justice textbooks, 9 out of 10 murders in the USA are unsolved.

Have you ever known someone that got away with murder?

I knew someone who I believed got away with murder and more than once.
That person was my mother. A lot of people here and elsewhere online find this impossible to believe. I can't prove my mother killed people but I could make a good circumstantial case for it. People were afraid of my mother and they had reason to be.
I became suspicious that my step dad killed my mother by over dosing her on Tylenol. She had a lethal amount Tylenol in her system when she died. It was actually one of the causes of death. He'd made a weird comment to me after she died that caused me to be suspicious. Apparently they were having problems but I wasn't aware of it until after she died because we hadn't been close in while and she wouldn't have told me anyway. But he insinuated to me that he killed her. He didn't say it out and right but he had said enough. I never saw him again after that day. But I know he remarried because my sister bumped into him a few years after that. But we were both with him that day and we think he put Tylenol in her food and drinks because he had been feeding her because she hadn't been feeling well. We think he did it over a period of time. I didn't even know she was sick. We didn't live close at the time.
greenmountaingal · 70-79, F
@Spoiledbrat I am sorry about your mother. Sometimes our intuition gets woken up when we hear a strange remark. Also, when people do what you believe your stepfather did, they want other people to be afraid of them and so they drop hints.
Stopmakingsense · 56-60, F
Not well, but men dump the dead bodies of dead wives they've killed in Honolulu Harbor and then lots of people laugh about it in front of everyone.
greenmountaingal · 70-79, F
@Stopmakingsense That's sad. I wonder if they'd laugh if the victim was someone they cared about personally. Or if they'd been the one being strangled or stabbed with a knife knowing they had little or no chance to survive and live another day.
Stopmakingsense · 56-60, F
@greenmountaingal yup. They did.
CestManan · 46-50, F
Sometimes it can take years.

I think also for the murders that are solved, it is people that society deems as "mattering more". Like some young beautiful lady from the suburbs.
greenmountaingal · 70-79, F
@CestManan Sadly, I think you are right.
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greenmountaingal · 70-79, F
@SW-User I thought the UK was a gun free environment.
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Isn’t a 5 year sentence deal for pleading to man slaughter getting away with it
greenmountaingal · 70-79, F
@SW-User I would say so. Murder usually gets a life sentence. Or worse.
cherokeepatti · 61-69, F
My father did
greenmountaingal · 70-79, F
@cherokeepatti Wow. I knew you and I had a lot in common but this is outrageous. Who did he kill and why, (if you know that)? How did you find out about it or figure it out? Did anyone else know or suspect? Did the police ever become involved and if not, why not?
cherokeepatti · 61-69, F
@greenmountaingal My mother. He was sadistic to her as it was and the day after it happened he was bragging on how much money he would get from the VA for a widower’s pension every month. That was his motive. Believe he just married her so she’d pay the bills with her money (she was conservative with her $) while he drank up his VA disability check most months. He admitted it to one sister less than 10 years before he died. I said from the minute I heard about it that he did.
greenmountaingal · 70-79, F
@cherokeepatti Wow, Cherokee, that's awful. I can, unfortunately, relate. I believe my mother killed my father as he lay dying in a hospital Intensive Care unit. It's a long time ago and an attorney told me it's too late now to do anything about it or get the police to investigate since my father died in 1983 and my mother died in 2003. At the time, the circumstantial evidence plus what I knew about my mother and her behavior at the time, convinced me but it would've taken more to convince a judge or jury. However, I was afraid to do anything at the time since everyone always believed my mother about everything and me about nothing. And I feared what my mother would do to me if I went to the police and she wasn't convicted. Now that I am older, and with a college degree in Criminal Justice, I realize that an active police investigation could've turned up quite a bit of evidence. Besides my mother, I believe 2 other people were involved and they had a lot to lose by not telling the police the truth. I think at least one of the two would've cracked and implicated my mother to avoid being charged with being an accessory to a murder. Too bad I didn't know all of that back then. Their testimony in a courtroom would've cooked my mother. And saved their medical careers (one was a nurse, the other an intern). I believe my mother tortured my father on his deathbed as part of a deathbed security interrogation and then, probably using an agreed upon hand gesture, she ordered the intern to turn off Dad's oxygen or in some other way, cause his death so it would appear he died of heart failure. I think if I'd had the knowledge and the courage to get the police (and probably, inevitably, the FBI) involved, neither the young intern nor the nurse, would've taken the chance of having their lives and careers ruined over their involvement. I'm old now, a clear example of hindsight is 20-20.
A good many murderers have children.
greenmountaingal · 70-79, F
@Mamapolo2016 Thank you. That's a good point. Somehow people assume that murderers don't look or act in any way like other people because their acts are so monstrous it seems as if they must be monsters of some kind. But they're just human beings who did something wrong and other than the murder(s) they look and act like other people. My mother was educated, mannerly and charming. Of course, so was Ted Bundy. Our ideas of what a murderer is like do not serve the criminal justice system well.

 
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