@soulrespite he said Happy Friday this morning.
I said “ Hi
Is it a happy Friday? 🤷‍♀
How are you?
I’m at a cleaning job.”

He said “ Its always a Happy Friday. I'm well.” And “ I think from now on I'll let you reach out to me from now on.
Being direct, I'm exhausted putting in effort in women anymore. It got tiring fast. It may make me look like a jerk but I frankly don't care anymore.”

I said “ It doesn’t make you look like jerk at all. It’s realistic.”. He also posted on his page that “effort should be two ways. Don’t be an emotional vampire 😉 “

What he misunderstands is that the reason I’m not putting effort into reaching out is that I’m backing away as a passive break up method. Does it matter that he doesn’t get it? Of course I’m anxious as hell that I’m letting him go and it might be the wrong decision.

No.. he wants you to chase him. That’s not what I meant. I thought you were asking what to say to ChatGPT.. so I said just say hi.

I think you need to stop talking to that man, he is toxic. And I don’t have any more advice for you. Best of luck. @Stuffy

@soulrespite Thanks. I wish I understood “toxic” better.