There is someone that claims he has no romantic feelings for me but when I say that I'm taking my ex back he asks is this what you want. He's lying

You think?

SW-User

seems like he wants to keep you on a leash. wanting to get all flirty and lovey dovey without having to worry about commitment.

Teirdalin · 31-35

@SW-User ^Possibly that.

Renkon · 36-40, M

It's simple. He has feelings for you. But can't commit to you for some reason.

Chances are he loves being around you. But if you are seeing someone, that would change everything. He is a friend. But he is also a guy. So it makes things complicated for him.

But the big question is : Do you Love him...romantically?

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Casheyane · F

@Laralemonsqueeze Then why in the world are your taking you ex back? Pick one and take the risk for that one once you figure out he's worthy to you.

Laralemonsqueeze · 36-40, F

@Casheyane @Renkon not yet😐😐😐

Renkon · 36-40, M

@Laralemonsqueeze You are grown woman. Just tell him how you feel about him. Give him a couple of days to figure if he feels the same. Don’t hide behind ifs and nots.

Figure things out and move on without wasting your time.

smiler2012 · 56-60

{@laralemonsqeeze] 🤔are you trying to subtly trying too force his hand to either get off the pot by bringing an ex in . maybe he is looking out for your interest and for what ever agenda he has does not want you to get back together maybe

Laralemonsqueeze · 36-40, F

@smiler2012 yes, I'm testing him out because he does romantic things with me but then acts like it's nothing serious. However when I bring up my ex like why does he question it? If he didn't care he wouldn't question me taking my ex back right?😀

smiler2012 · 56-60

@Laralemonsqueeze makes it rather difficult for you when he blows hot and cold it is though you do not quiet know where you stand and where your relationship is going exactly . perhaps this cunning ploy on your part make either be make or break for you both

Kae20 · 56-60, FVIP

Obviously I don't know the ins & outs . But off the cuff I would say he's genuinely undecided.❣️

ServantOfTheGoddess · 61-69, M

He needn't be lying; he could be concerned for you as a friend.

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