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I Am Confused About My Feelings

they all seems to be coming all at once, not slow waves, tsunami-like.

i wonder whether there's a tips and methids about how to trace and figure out your feelings
frequentlyme · 70-79, M
For me, letting feelings steep a bit, sort of like when making tea, is the method I use to sort them out. Acting upon them without first letting them settle in can be disastrous at worst, and disappointing at best.
Qveenve · 26-30, F
@frequentlyme so i take time and try to notice it until everything settles in?
frequentlyme · 70-79, M
@Qveenve Feelings are often not well filtered by our minds - it's an emotional thing, and we often go with what feels good at the moment (feels good on an emotional level). That's not always a wise choice. It is though often difficult to stop and think when emotions are flooding over you. Slowing things down, letting the feelings settle, allows a person to use logic, apply their core values and morals, etc. and then act, make a decision, or whatever is appropriate for that situation. Keep your core values, your morals, and your sense of what is for you right and what is not right, always in mind. It isn't easy, doing what is best for yourself is not the easiest thing to do. It is in the long run, the smartest thing to do.
Quizzical · 46-50, M
You could try meditation
Qveenve · 26-30, F
@Quizzical nice insights, sit and self reflect

i wonder how if it (the overwhelming feelings) happens during social situation where i dont have time to meditate
Quizzical · 46-50, M
@Qveenve Well, that sounds like an anxiety attack to me.

You may want to look into some breathing exercises or other ways to reduce anxiety.

 
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