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I'm feeling really frustrated about this situation....

It's incredibly frustrating when you're having a conversation with someone,
and everything seems fine until they visit my profile and indirectly imply that I'm interested in mature women, while they themselves are straight.
They suggest that we should stop talking.
I never indicated that I was here for inappropriate reasons
or
that I wanted anything more than a genuine connection or conversation.

When did I say that I am here for sexting or that I want to engage in any inappropriate behavior or chatting?

I'm feeling really angry about this situation.

I am so pissed off right now.
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Eidolon · M Best Comment

😂😂😂

Welcome to the club! Us straight men have been attending these seminars for years, except our version is being indirectly told that we're only interested in women who are immature, shallow, and have the moral standards of a Netflix reality show.

Apparently, wanting a genuine conversation with a woman is just a suspicious activity until proven otherwise.
You want to get to know someone? Hidden agenda.
You want an intelligent conversation? You're playing games.
You show interest? You're desperate.
You don't? You're emotionally unavailable.

Honestly, I think some of us need to stop having conversations and start submitting formal applications, complete with police clearance, three references, and a sworn affidavit confirming that we are, in fact, capable of holding a conversation without trying to get into someone's pants
@Eidolon So many boxes for a application !!

GoFish ·
@valobasa4ever welcome ☺
@GoFish

I will leave now.

Have a nice day.
GoFish ·
@valobasa4ever ok sorry
OriginalDumbMan · 36-40
This is SW.
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@NinaTina Thank you. 🍁
MellyMel22 · F
I’m sorry that happened to you. You didn’t deserve that.
MellyMel22 · F
Sapio · 51-55, M
I'm sorry that happened to you.
@Sapio

Thank You. 🙏🏼
Ericlinz0402 · 46-50, M
Sorry about that! it can be frustrating sometimes when you have genuine reason of being here.. I hope to find someone genuine as myself.
@Ericlinz0402

Wishing you all the best. 🙏🏼
Ericlinz0402 · 46-50, M
@valobasa4ever thank you
Nimediapresentations · 41-45, M
They are not your friends. Don't bother trying to convince them to stay. Hold your head up high.
“You are confined only by the walls you build yourself.”
VladG94 · 31-35, M
I'm sorry to hear that it happened to you.... All I can say is fuck them to be honest!!!!
@VladG94 That's very tempting .. ;-)

Though I have never used F*uck word here before. 🍁
key word being 'mature'...

they may be straighty 180.. but mature is a stretch :)
@TheOneyouwerewarnedabout

"Speechless" . 🤐
@valobasa4ever dont worry. we can be sausage mcmuffin buddies 🥰
@TheOneyouwerewarnedabout

Sounds cool . :-*
Degbeme · 70-79, M
I am sorry you were treated like that. Not a lot of respect shown by him.
I’m sorry that happened to you.

It can really be upsetting when you’re misunderstood for your words, actions or intentions. But this is the internet. It could be difficult to express ourselves properly without other people judging us based on their perceptions.
@CookieCrumbs

Thank you. 🙏🏼

From now on I will follow a simple rule.... No expectation ... No Pain. 🍁
DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
Unfortunately there is a whole lot of discrimination of all types going on.

Sorry that happened to you. Yet after decades on the Internet, I am extremely familiar with the discrimination attitude. 🤗

Your preferences really don't matter to many, and usually not the reason they are on here.
That’s what the block button is for, Val! Out of sight out of mind, I always say.
It’s a form of bullying, don’t reply to it , it’s what they want.
Conflict avoided 👍
@Iknowyourouttheresomewhere

That's your loss . Not mine. 👻

No free vodka for you. 🤭
@valobasa4ever Not a fan of vodka 😌. I was on a beach in Aruba several years back and these two ladies came up to me and asked if I was Russian 🤷‍♂😅. Maybe I was pale 🤔

 
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