Be careful who you feel chosen by ...

you're telling me
I'm living the life of the chosen, when alls I want is to be left alone...in the quiet, with my cat

Oh yeah!! I almost forgot that part of it all, shivering version from The Wicker Man

Sometimes people also have to ask:
“are they really choosing me, or they’re choosing me because they have no other choice?”

Amen. Ignoring red flags just for the sake of feeling chosen can come at a very high cost.