Do you ever have thoughts of...

Yes, often.

All the time

Yeah, and ultimately it's a relief, something worse would surely have happened.

Daily

Mhmm

Yes...too often.

No what is , is for a reason.

Yeah I do but I can't do nothing about it .
the future for me and my husband was taken away and I think if I spend all my time doing that I would be completely miserable.

Yes, but I wouldn't change anything

Occasionally but you can't change the past, so best to make your future a happier one.

Nope

having these thoughts can create anxious or regret and be interpreted as more than just a feeling making it harder to act and be more indecisive.
- They ignore uncertainty and the reality that most choices are reversible or have learnable feedback.