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Do people not like consistency and stability anymore ?

Maybe I'm just old ..
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EldritchFox · 41-45, F
I do and it's probably why I'll die alone.

You have to be dedicated but not need anything.

Open up while getting pushed away.

Try until you're empty for someone who intermittently cares.

Know when people are having mood swings without communication.

Know when people want space without being told.

And accept punishment for having needs.

Tbh, I hate most humans right now. Very selfish creatures we have become. I don't care anymore. If I die alone I'll be better off than chasing someone for scraps.
@EldritchFox I think many people have become more selfish and self centered to even know what it entails
EldritchFox · 41-45, F
@cherny it's going down hill fast. I guess I'll die alone on my hill, as they say.
Ferric67 · M
I'm an expert on the older population....or so, my professional reputation says
And, I can definitively say....you are not there yet.
Being physically broken can make us feel older than we are....add in your ability to be logical and wise....and it just compounds everything into feeling....too old for this shit

Moral of my story
U R not old

Got it cherny?
@Ferric67 got it 👍
Ferric67 · M
@cherny 💪👍🕺
That is all I want. And loyalty.
Magenta · F
It's a strange world now.
I'm glad I got to grow up in a previous generation. A few generations back actually.
@Magenta same ...it taught me the value of consistency, stability and relationships
Magenta · F
@cherny Indeed. all the important things. 🩷🌺
FreestyleArt · 36-40, M
It's kind of hard to become one these days when everything have strict laws everywhere. Big Brother always stick their noses to our businesses and prosecuting us for speaking out. Too much surveillance. Too much this and that.


Even living in the outside world still feels like Prison.
SpectralMourning · 46-50, M
I enjoy both. Could probably be argued that it's to a fault. Guess I'm old too.
GoFish ·
the ones in their right minds do.. not sure what % that is..
SumKindaMunster · 56-60, M
People seem to like having their beliefs, opinions and choices validated by others.

Dissent is not tolerated, nobody wants to debate their beliefs, they want to be around people who already believe what they do.
Younameit · F
People like chaos unfortunately
@Younameit as life is ever changing I have changed in that I don't like chaos I prefer calm ...I think it's because my job can be chaotic and I can deal with it but I also need calm and peace
mindstruggle · 31-35, F
I'd like to believe some do. The people who truly value it may be quieter, but they're out there. Don't lose faith in what you bring to the table.
PerfectionOfTheHeart · 46-50, F
It’s far less common than it should be. I’m left baffled at how often I see people project their unsettledness onto others so freely.
@PerfectionOfTheHeart The culture has changed and people do things now that they wouldn't have otherwise done before ..
People have become emboldened to act in these ways
PerfectionOfTheHeart · 46-50, F
@cherny I often wonder if such behaviors were as strong in adults when we were kids…we were just too young to really notice them in the older set. Even if it was a thing, it feels way more heavy now. I don’t know if it’s just the time we live in, or if it feels that way because it directly affects us more now. Either way, it blows.
empanadas · 31-35, M
I ask the same thing alot. People nowdays are pretty messed up mentally
empanadas · 31-35, M
@cherny naw im still werid but the world and people are getting weirder
@empanadas I'm definitely " weird" but I think " weirder" is the new normal
empanadas · 31-35, M
@cherny ah yeah, i get it. I agree, people are getting weird af 😐 i walk around without headphones sometimes and the stuff i hear people saying in public makes me question my faith in humanity. We have normalized some wild stuff
I would prefer that those things be the baseline normal ... we're not supposed to have expectations, but these seem like they would be nice as a given

 
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