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HisMountainGirl · 51-55, F
In your opinion what’s a real man?
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MarkPaul · 26-30, M
@HisMountainGirl Sophisticated, a gentleman, providing emotional support (within reason), and respecting each other's role.
HisMountainGirl · 51-55, F
@MarkPaul sounds good so far…and?
MarkPaul · 26-30, M
@HisMountainGirl And... dominant, confident, and high status. But, not as a stereotype.
HisMountainGirl · 51-55, F
@MarkPaul okay, keep going…
MarkPaul · 26-30, M
@HisMountainGirl Well, that's it in a nutshell.
HisMountainGirl · 51-55, F
@MarkPaul you missed on of the main things we look for…protective
MarkPaul · 26-30, M
@HisMountainGirl That's covered under emotional support.
HisMountainGirl · 51-55, F
@MarkPaul that doesn’t cover physical protection but ok
basilfawlty89 · 36-40, M
@MarkPaul why not try for stable, well-rounded, and humble?
MarkPaul · 26-30, M
@basilfawlty89 Well, there are plenty of secondary attributes I suppose you could say.
basilfawlty89 · 36-40, M
@MarkPaul instead of bottling up your emotions, you actually engage with them.
Showing that vulnerability is courage.
And being able to do that shows growth, strength and resilience.
Showing that vulnerability is courage.
And being able to do that shows growth, strength and resilience.
MarkPaul · 26-30, M
@basilfawlty89 That seems like a recipe for disaster and decline.
basilfawlty89 · 36-40, M
@MarkPaul no, it's a recipe for being authentic and leading with empathy.
It shows true bravery.
It shows true bravery.
MarkPaul · 26-30, M
@basilfawlty89 It sounds more like a guidebook for girls to play with dolls. I'm talking about the real world with real women and real people in realistic circumstances.
basilfawlty89 · 36-40, M
@MarkPaul to you, it does. Because you listen to "alpha male" bs. You need to surrender your ego, open your heart and free your mind.
MarkPaul · 26-30, M
@basilfawlty89 I don't listen, I live it. And as a recognizable alpha male, I can assure you I have no intention of "surrendering" my ego. That's insane. Try using your mind instead of dismissing it.
basilfawlty89 · 36-40, M
@MarkPaul my mind is working fine. I based what I'm saying on psychological studies, history, and theology. You are merely being arrogant assuming you must know best.
You're 26-30, you have much to learn.
You're 26-30, you have much to learn.
MarkPaul · 26-30, M
@basilfawlty89 I have life experience. That's not something to underestimate.
basilfawlty89 · 36-40, M
@MarkPaul but far less.
MarkPaul · 26-30, M
@basilfawlty89 Well, that's just disrespectful.
basilfawlty89 · 36-40, M
@MarkPaul no. It's chronologically accurate.
MarkPaul · 26-30, M



