Sunday morning thoughts......

If you could change one thing about your life, what would it be and why?

Personally I would like my step mother to have been my actual mother.

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SinlessOnslaught · M

I'm not sure how to explain it. Mostly because the generic response is "well then just do it".

I want to be more skilled at loving and helping people. But I'm just not.

I'm sorry to hear your answer about wanting your stepmom as your actual mom. I hope it doesn't mean you had a bad upbringing.

Silentpleasure · 36-40, F

@SinlessOnslaught Thanks for your response and sorry for the late replay. My upbringing was ok but my mother is not a good person. My stepmom is so amazing and actually picked me when she really didnt need too. I am truly blessed she is in my life.

SinlessOnslaught · M

@Silentpleasure No worries, thanks for getting back to me.

I'm glad your stepmom came into your life. You deserve it.

Silentpleasure · 36-40, F

@SinlessOnslaught I just hope I have been as much help for her as she has been for me.

SinlessOnslaught · M

@Silentpleasure I can think of someone I look up to and hope the same thing about.

The promising thing is that loving people like your stepmom tend to find hope and motivation in those they choose to take care of. That is a tremendous help to them.