Someone who has been employed for a while is giving you strong evidence of submission.

I see the opposite. There's a lot of cultural pressure right now to jump between jobs and grind your way to the top. Always working to make sure you can please the next people you interview with. Giving in to that grindset just sounds so conformist and submissive to me.

To hell with that. I work to live, I don't live to work. A steady, stable job serves me. I may not climb the ladder as fast but I can focus on what I want to outside of work. Those grindset job hoppers seem to just go home to do more work to prepare themselves for more work in the future.