Being ghosted

Even online it hurts. You create that friendship, you let someone in to your life. You talk you bond things are good then all of a sudden they just disappear.
I would rather be told sorry I'm not feeling this anymore than for someone just to dip out.
Am I stupid for feeling this way i don't know maybe. But I'm human and it still stings.

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MissyChrissy · 18-21, F

Its not stupid to feel this way, Ma'am.
I feel it often.
Its one thing not to get answers on my first messages due to the warning on my profile, I may understand that.
But its worse to convince people to chat with me though, explaining to them my warning, chatting with them for a while, and suddenly they stop answering without a reason, which is visible for me. As if I suddenly have gotten online leprosy or something. 😞

How can people be so cruel and read how I beg for a simple answer up to a dozen times, sometimes over years, instead just answering: "Go away, I don't want to chat with you anymore, because [reason]". Or just block me, that's okay too. Is that so difficult?