I’m confused…

So people rather talk about me or let me hear it from someone else then tell me about issues and stuff…

Then I’m told that I’m too nice so that don’t respect me which I don’t get it.

Talking about something I don’t do, but won’t tell me until an argument…they really making me feel so unapproachable

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Umile · 41-45, F

Switch it up and shut it down.

Pivot.

Set your boundaries and mete out the consequences when they are overstepped. Right there, right then.

Do it calmly, but firmly.

Ask them to inform you of the next time something needs to be done.

Communication is very important.

The ball is always in your court.

bottledemotions247 · 22-25, F

@Umile thank you

Umile · 41-45, F

@bottledemotions247 you're very welcome. Don't beat yourself over the small stuff. Enjoy yourself. 🙏

Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F

I'm afraid we live in a world that is afraid of confrontation.
I would like people to come to me and tell me as well.

It's hard to know what they mean by too nice?
I've learned to say no to requests when I need to say no.

SW-User

Most define kindness as weakness Is why you aren't respected. Standing up for yourself is the best way to turn things around

WatchThis · 41-45, M

Is this in the workplace or a relationship?

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