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The idea behind needing a father figure to become functioning members of society is outdated

I see it a lot online, some kid becomes a juvenile delinquent, some woman becomes an escort, a group of teens/adults steal a lot of items from a convenience store and the first assumption made is they don’t have a father. What’s outdated about it is even though It might be true for some, it’s not for others. Everyone is born and raised in different environments facing different outcomes. Some people come from a loving household raised by both parents and still become sh!tty, convicts, abusers, manipulators, mass murderers, etc. while others don’t. Some people are raised by a single mother and stay out of trouble, with others don’t. I think at the end of the day it depends on the individual.
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PleasurePunch · 100+
I picked up a hitchhiker and he said his parents died. He said he was a student here in my state. He was on a student visa but out of money and staying at all night betting casinos. I gave him a room here for the night and in the morning he peeled an orange and didn't know where to dump the peels, so I gestured to the "outside" so he threw them on the asphalt greenhouse floor instead. I thought that was so strange.

Somehow he was getting money at the casino but I couldn't imagine how. I wanted to take him to this place where he could have gotten some work but he made me take him back to the casino. He was hooked on meth and said he got the habit after coming to the states from his native India.

He looked haunted and lost.. He wanted me to come into the casino and get a free ten dollar voucher to play and I wouldn't.

He seemed to be lost because of his fatherless. Seemed motherless too, he didn't seem to know how to be with any woman, no softness, just timidity and need...before he retired he seemed to think I would join him there.

So that's what no parents can do. Hope you all have some!!!