What are your thoughts on this????

My friend called me distraught her ex husband who was absent for some time reappeared he is now requesting to see his son, she is very kind person
She sent him a picture of her son. Who is literally looks exactly like , he looked at the pictures called her back and told her that the kid looks like her💀
Basically I know both of them and everyone with even half a sight can see that the child looks like him
He also made a comment about her son needing a hair cut 💀,

I remember her telling me that he always complained about something with any pictures that she sends ,
That either the kid is skinny anything you name it
I didn't know what to say because i didn't want to be negative. I told her that i will call her back
Ugggggg what's wrong with this guy ????

Queendragonfly · 31-35, F

He's in a very immature way trying to tell her that he wants to be involved in his sons life and how he's raised.

Becoming a parent doesn't come with a manual. Some people are too insecure and assume the other parent is better for the kids but then with time they realize they are neglecting their child a second parent and they wanna be there for their child.

Unless the parent has any issues that is a danger to the child, let the child have both parents.