thoughts on this???

what does it mean when hes invested so much on his ex but woulndt do a simple thing with you? or not do the same things like going on trips and adventure? like from the song de javu by olivia and think its better? is it better if hes giving you the same effort that just being dull with you??

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Queendragonfly · 31-35, F

Is he burned out or depressed? Exclusive Trips and adventures isn't what's most important in a relationship. And to compare you and her isn't healthy either. But if he's not interested to talk or listen to you, that's a big concern. Have you ever asked him what he needs? What he struggles with?

Sadmum09 · 26-30, F

@Queendragonfly hes just saying its different with me. but its hard to believe when all he did when he was with me was impregnate me and not allow me to work. he wants to be in control. i know it aint healthy its ruining us, and my mental health thinking im not worth any of those.