Thoughts that help me stay away from bad people

You become the people you spend time around. Do I want to be like this person?

If I knew I was going to die in ten days, would I be happy with my time and energy spent on particular people, and would I want to spend my time with them knowing I'm going to die soon?

Do my friends like them?

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SageWanderer · 70-79, M

Do they make me a better person? And most importantly do my dogs accept them? I always took any woman that could become serious to meet my mom. Not because I needed her approval as much as her dog was a good judge of character.

SW-User

Do these people make me happy more often than not?
Are they there for me when it matters?
Do they get me into trouble?
Can I rely on them?
Do they have an overall positive effect on my life?

caccoon · 36-40

@SW-User I swear I'm gonna create a cheat sheet for myself when I'm struggling and these will all help

sarabi · F

If we were in a war, would they go out of their way to help me?

caccoon · 36-40

@sarabi I feel like many people would not, war is a scary thing. But I do have one or two friends that I'm positive would

SW-User

Do they really care about me and my feelings, that's important for me.

Harmonium1923 · 51-55, M

Do they sincerely appreciate what I do for them?

caccoon · 36-40

@Harmonium1923 another good one

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caccoon · 36-40

@SW-User very true

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