I've heard some women say that trans women make them not feel like women anymore.

Imagine being that weak and fragile that even sitting next to a trans woman makes you feel like you don't have a vag anymore. If I sat down next to a trans female, this doesn't mean I'm not female anymore. Imagine having a cisgender identity that is SO fragile that anything breaks you. Imagine being that weak, I could never be like that.

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spjennifer · 61-69, T

I don't disagree with what you say but often Trans people have had to hide their gender identity for so long that we tend to go overboard with the femininity and some women feel threatened by that. Some of us may be unkind to women, same as some Men and Women are unkind to women, kindness has nothing to do with Gender Identity, it's a normal human trait that some of us have and others don't. I would like to hope that women would feel empowered by Trans people trying to emulate them instead of feeling belittled or threatened by us. I am lucky to have several female friends who've been kind enough to help me with feeling better about my feminine self and I would never do anything that would cause them harm, ever!

SatanBurger · 36-40, F

@spjennifer So I wanted to say that it's mostly the anti trans community and people will always be anti trans sadly, there's really nothing I can say or do that won't make someone not anti trans.

I agree with most of what you say but I just think it's wrong for anti trans women to look at a trans woman and say "it's YOUR fault that I feel this way." I come from a narcissistic relationship in the past and let me tell you, it feels like that's kind of gaslighting in a way. It's VERY abusive.

"It's YOUR fault, YOU made me do it, YOU are to blame."

That's just so wrong.

Women who do that are thin skinned and weak, that's why they are so cruel to other people.

spjennifer · 61-69, T

@SatanBurger

So I wanted to say that it's mostly the anti trans community and people will always be anti trans sadly, there's really nothing I can say or do that won't make someone not anti trans.

You are correct on this, these are also the ones who tend to scream about the use of washrooms and feeling unsafe. God help the SOB who would try to harm or harass a woman or other Trans in the Ladies room if I were in there, it wouldn't end well for them.

I agree with most of what you say but I just think it's wrong for anti trans women to look at a trans woman and say "it's YOUR fault that I feel this way." I come from a narcissistic relationship in the past and let me tell you, it feels like that's kind of gaslighting in a way. It's VERY abusive.

"It's YOUR fault, YOU made me do it, YOU are to blame."

These are the type of people, regardless of if they are Men or Women, who blame others for their shortcomings. You just have to choose to let it go, you're not going to change their little minds no matter how hard you try...

Women who do that are thin skinned and weak, that's why they are so cruel to other people.

People like that are weak, no matter the Gender, just walk away and smile, you will feel better 😊

SatanBurger · 36-40, F

@spjennifer I made this post just to get it out of my system personally, I'm not trying to change minds. I was mainly irritated by how the anti trans community actually has the audacity to blame the trans community for them feeling a certain way. I mean, I only see that kind of behavior in abusive relationships and I will be damned if I EVER let someone walk away without knowing how weak they are inside. I will make sure to let them know that.

You got to understand, I been through abusive relationships so the whole recent viewpoint of the anti trans community triggered me enough to really hit hard back. I recognize abusive behavior, blaming people for how YOU feel.

YOU MADE ME DO IT!

Nah, nobody made them do it, they're just weak, thin skinned and spineless cowards.

spjennifer · 61-69, T

@SatanBurger I feel sorry that you were treated that way, no matter by who. I was only trying to make you feel less angry 🥴

SatanBurger · 36-40, F

@spjennifer Thanks for making me feel less angry, it worked ☺️

Anti trans women being thin skinned is just a fact I was pointing out in my original post. It blew up however in the comment section 😆