I've heard some women say that trans women make them not feel like women anymore.

@Fukfacewillie It's not all cisgendered people because not all cisgenders blame people for their short comings. But it's not harsh, they're taking fantasies of what they think a woman should be and literally saying that having trans women around, makes female cisgenders not women somehow.

Blaming the trans community for your lack of real authentic identity is unfair because you're not the trans person. Does anyone ever stop to think how they treat them? About how they sound to other people? They don't, they don't care. They are cruel, mean spirited and heartless.

If you (not you specifically) don't feel like a woman, that's in your own head. That's just the thing, everything just is.

Anyone who is firm in their own identity wouldn't need constant validation from others, we don't need to validate you're female yeah? Being feminine doesn't come from looks anyways, it's a state of mind, just like masculinity and I don't mean stereotypical either.

Hence they're literally weak but they don't have to be, understand they are CHOOSING to be, therein lays the difference.

@SatanBurger There is no excuse for cruelty, but ambivalence is a different matter. This person’s particular comment may be overwrought. I’d be curious if it comes from hate or just lack of familiarity. If it’s more of the latter then I think these judgements are misplaced.

@Fukfacewillie Yeah but think of how a trans woman feels when cisgenders say that to them though. I'm not sparing their feelings because they don't anyone else's. The only way kindness will be repaid is if they are.

@SatanBurger I think showing they are obviously not a threat, verses harsh judgment, will create more compassion. If someone went up to a trans person and started berating them, that’s 100% wrong. Being asked a question and answering honestly should be an opportunity for dialog and understanding. The context is important.

@Fukfacewillie Well someone else pointed out that the people who started this whole thing was a movement by a far right white women groups so when was the last time a far righter just suddenly changed their heart because they had open dialogue.

I don't mention it but I low key aimed my post at this sub type because it's mainly them. I just don't think they can ever have compassion.

Though I do hope I'm proven wrong, I hope I'm wrong but from my experience people don't ever change.

On here even, a person could be outwardly wrong and I've never seen anyone have a change of heart.

I've never seen an anti gay person just not be anti gay anymore.

@SatanBurger Ahh, they don’t usually change their minds. You’re right about that. Hopefully their numbers will go down.