I Love to Hear Thoughts And Opinions of Others

I don't just assume my view of reality is correct. I am always in search of constructive feedback. I enjoy learning, growing and adapting to life. Finding commonality with others can be very rewarding.

What do you think? Help me understand.

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boklenholley7 · F

This is a perfect description for me too.

amObsolete · 100+, T

@boklenholley7 Do you simply observe, or do you actively seek feedback from others?

boklenholley7 · F

@amObsolete a combination of both. It depends on my mood. But I enjoy debates and learning about others and their POVs. So I tend to ask a lot of questions to understabd better.

amObsolete · 100+, T

@boklenholley7 I do that as well. I'm concerned I come off as prying or even creepy with my questions. Do you deal with that feeling?

boklenholley7 · F

@amObsolete yes! Lol. I always feel like I'm being rude or coming off as challenging their views. Sometimes it's like I'm interrogating them.. 😅

amObsolete · 100+, T

Yes! especially here on the internet, which is fraught with perils. I find it tough to be curious without seeming invasive and off-putting (or so I think, anyway)

boklenholley7 · F

@amObsolete exactly! Invasive is a great word for it.. i can be intense so i know i come off as invasive at times haha..

amObsolete · 100+, T

@boklenholley7 Being like minded, perhaps we are a good friendship match? May I add you to my circle?

boklenholley7 · F

@amObsolete maybe so. And go for it. (: