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@llittlebit, Something a memory or experience that you might think of as a trigger is involved but not really as just a trigger. You could have the exact same trigger in two people in the same type circumstances and one gets it but the other does not. There is something that happens which opens a person up to being receptive to that trigger for lack of a better word. There is no consensus as to what this "something" is but they all seem to agree that there is something there. Then after what ever that is something acts like a trigger to incorporate it into the template or love map. The random part is probably just the timing of when things happen and what stands out. And for those who have it is more than just a like, it is the most powerful erotic motivator they feel. I wish we had private messages I would share one of the specific explanations I have received. It is pretty complicated and can get more confusing when you see one person who has in interest in a fetish just because they think is kind of interesting and another person who actually has it, people don't really just how different the two cases are.