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Subsumedpat · 36-40, M
littlebit not being an expert I am not that great at explaining things but to simplify when you are very young a template of or the foundation of what you will later find sexually attractive is laid down. It is not sexual to you and you don't even realize it is happening but none the less connections are made that will come alive when you hit puberty. When this happens sometimes for rather complicated reasons gets attached or included. When this happens and your sexuality wakes up instead of just forming thoughts and fantasy of how you would interact with a mate you also form thoughts and fantasies around what ever that was that long ago had a connection, that is where the fetish comes from.