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How many times do you need to repost the same post??
@SW-User she has been posting same thing again and again
summerlove · 31-35, F
@SW-User I reposted the same question because I was asking about the behaviour displayed and trying to make sense of it which is something I haven’t posted before.
summerlove · 31-35, F
@RemovedUser618272 I haven’t been posting the same thing again and again. I posted this question a few days ago in only 2 different categories because I was feeling sad and just wanted different perspectives on why I was treated that way. This question was the only question I posted since then asking if it seemed like narcissism. I’m just hurting at the moment and trying to make sense of things because he ended things through a text message, not even a phone call and then after he said we would meet up to talk about things he goes back on his word. So I’m just really hurting at the moment.

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Not sure about a narcissistic category, but he’s definitely being selfish.
You need to try and stop contacting him. He’ll likely keep disappointing you.
summerlove · 31-35, F
@SW-User I haven’t contacted him. He has just gotten me so confused by his behaviour. He went from a really nice guy to a cruel one, I’m so confused by that.
SW-User
@summerlove I know and I’m sure…
So sorry.. 😕
Fairydust · F
I’d let that one go, some just like to play games and keep you dangling.
SW-User
Well not sure about narcissist but probably was just how he appeared in the beginning... Some people seem super interested but it's the novelty... Then change... And be themselves 🙁I've hace had that happen to me and was quite disappointing
anglais · 51-55, M
Sounds to me like he's got someone else and is keeping you hanging on in reserve in case it doesn't work out. Don't put up with that kind of inconsiderate, selfish behaviour. Be strong and have nothing more to do with the idiot. You're worth more than that. Good luck 🍀
SW-User
So, when someone tells you they don't want to see you because they are too busy for you ....there's nothing left to discuss ...you just need to be done with them and move on and meet someone who values you and your time ...eff that noise ....
reflectingmonkey · 51-55, M
sounds like he has someone else in his life. my guess is this: when he met you he also was casually getting to know someone else online, maybe someone who lives far away so he opted for you as a more logical choice but then oportunity came knocking and he was sent to this person's city so he decided to meet this person for the first time. they hit it off. he didn't want to take responsability for his actions so he lied. now he's avoiding you because lying face to face with someone is a lot more awkward.
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Jessmari · 41-45
Sounds more like a flake than a narcissist.
Dan193 · 31-35, M
Yes,now leave him and dont look back
Isthisit · F
Lucky you got away from him when you did. His true colors started showing....Best to just forget about him. You dont deserve to be mistreated like that.
basilfawlty89 · 31-35, M
Not necessarily.
Narcissists usually lovebomb.
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