If I ever meet a girl which I doubt, I will say don't bring that woke nonsense here, damn if do, damn if don't I'm not messing my life more.

That's not the best way to start off. Maybe get to know them without the political status predetermined right off the bat.

Tell them all up front,
Archaeologists have been digging up human remains for over a century and have found only two genders, male and female.
Not once have they found any if the 67 fantasy genders.

I also doubt you will.